Introductions discussion

Hi there. I’m JC and here to say hello. I’ve been really enjoying the content so far and am looking forward to joining in more actively with this great community.

I’m a 29-year-old law student, currently in my third year of school, living in New Jersey. My KH/Mistress has held her role as my submissive for our five years together. While we both identify as switches, we tend to stick to those established roles most of the time. We do swap around occasionally—maybe once a month for an evening since we both like it—but I usually resume being the dominant partner afterward because that’s where we’re both happiest.

I’ve been part of the BDSM scene for a few years longer than she has, having started out as a submissive to a lovely lifestyle Domme when I was 19. We spent an incredible year together during which she introduced me to so much more about what BDSM offers than I had realized before. She eventually let go because she could see that I’m really more of a switch than anything else, while she needed someone who was purely and thoroughly submissive. Interestingly enough, we remain friends today; it truly was an amazing experience.

Since then, I’ve always been aware of Tease and Denial as well as Feminization since we experimented with those on occasion in limited ways back when. As this year progressed, my KH/Mistress (I suppose Mistress K would be a fitting pseudonym) brought up the idea of us switching roles for longer periods. She asked me what submissive desires I had that might not have been realized yet or only briefly before.

I shared with her about tease and denial; she already knew quite well from her time as a female sub, though it’s certainly a different mindset when you’re on the receiving end this way. I also told her about chastity and how much I want to be feminized. We bought ourselves a CB-6000 which works wonderfully except for sleeping at night. Once school finishes up and I start earning better money, my plan is to invest in something higher quality that can handle 24/7 wear—even if we decide to switch roles again later.

At night, it’s all on the honor system since we currently live separately. But during the day, I’m required to wear both a CB and panties. Back at home after classes end, whether she is present or not, my rule is that I must change immediately into either one of her purchased nighties or my maid’s uniform along with wearing a collar. For at least an hour each evening, I need to stay plugged.

This setup has been in place since the first of this month and will continue for an indefinite amount of time now that we’ve gone through about two and a half months of buildup and experimenting while going in and out of the CB. It’s still unclear exactly when my release comes next, but last time before starting I lasted 2½ weeks; judging by how things are looking right now, I feel like this round will go even longer.

That’s basically where I’m at so far! I’ll be uploading a profile picture shortly. -JC