Introductions discussion

Hello everyone… My husband and I have explored various parts of BDSM and power dynamics over many years. A few months back, I bought a CB6000 and we used it for several weeks, but as life got busy again, we put it away—until now. When we play, we both see ourselves as switches; I am mostly submissive, though in the last couple of months I have moved into a more dominant role while he has taken on more of a subservient side. We’ve run into some terminology issues. We enjoy forced femme play, but neither of us cares for the word “Sissy”. Currently, we use Slut-husband. Another term that bothers me is “clitty”… I just don’t like it. When he wears chastity gear and panties, he doesn’t seem to have a ‘dick or cock’—so far, my best guess is ‘dicklette’. What other words do people use? And for those of you using a CB6000… A question: How do you put it on? When we need to fit his device, the ring isn’t an issue, but getting the head of his penis to seat correctly in the mushroom part is tricky. So far, we wrap butcher’s twine around the head—threading the string through the end hole—and (after lubricating the top) use it to pull him into the device before unwrapping and removing the twine. I can’t imagine this is the standard method, but it’s what works for us. My husband is a ‘grower’ rather than a ‘shower’; if he gets too erect first, he’s too big for the device, and if he stays completely flaccid without the string, he just squishes around the ring instead of entering the head. Anyway, I look forward to reading your experiences and learning from you.