Personal ads - Looking for a keyholder or sub? discussion

I’m new to this and hoping to connect with a kinky woman in California. Chastity play appeals to me, mostly as a fantasy, though I sometimes enjoy taking the lead role. I’m in my forties, fit, and healthy, seeking someone similar. A friend has agreed to try chastity dynamics with me, but that would end if I entered into another relationship. I joined today and am working on my profile details. Feel free to message me if you think we’d be compatible! While feminization isn’t for me and neither are men, a dominant woman really turns me on.