Mature Metal discussion

After a few weeks of getting used to my Watchful Mistress, I wanted to share how it’s going.

The dimensions: A-ring: 1 7/8 Cage Diameter: 1 3/8 Cage Length: 2 3/8 Gap: 3/8 Features anti-pullout and medium security screw I also had the horizontal bars on the front taken out.

My wife and I have been experimenting with chastity devices for a while, though it wasn’t always super serious. Usually just a couple of hours of play or maybe a few days locked up. Some of that hesitation might have come from our immaturity back then, but honestly, those plastic gadgets were uncomfortable, tricky to clean, and they broke down eventually. That’s why we went with the WM (Watchful Mistress). So far, she has nothing to complain about, and I have little reason to either (besides being locked up:P ).

I find my WM fitting just as comfortably as any ball trap device can when you come from plastic. Cleaning is straightforward and doesn’t require removing the unit. My only slight hygiene issue involves urination; I have to take a moment to align things properly inside the cage. This might be because I asked for the horizontal bars to be removed, but it really just means being careful about pulling out and peeing—no big deal. With the WM lining everything up in the cage easily, plus having open sides and only two bars at the head so my fingers can fit through, it’s manageable.

Regarding those horizontal bars: when I get an erection, there’s a tendency for my urethra to press against the bar. Being forced into that narrow slit can be uncomfortable. However, I don’t blame MM (Mistress) for this, and I’m not sure if having all front cage bars would fix it anyway. Actually, I quite enjoy erections while caged; it feels like there’s a nice firm grip holding things in place. This surprised me because even though I’d read about it before, my memories of plastic made it hard to believe.

One thing I recommend is really considering the cage length with the WM. Since both the base and head are made from 1/2” tubes, if you’re around 2 inches in length, the underside can end up being quite short. I think finding the best fit might be a bit tricky for those falling into that range.

The overall fitting seems good. I do get a little concerned—maybe just paranoid—about the gap size because MM devices usually aren’t aligned by default (A-ring to the top of the cage). I often check my temperature down there and notice it’s cooler in the evening, though fine during the day. Since I hang low, when things are high and tight, I do get some burning on my sac. I think the small gap size, alignment, and A-ring diameter all contribute to this; it seems like a fitting issue.

In terms of security, unfortunately, I can pull out fairly easily, but we expected that since I usually hang low—it was pretty much given. For us, though, 100% security wasn’t strictly necessary. More security would add to the fun, but full belts are a bit too much for our taste, and we aren’t keen on getting me pierced. We’re totally honest with each other; if I do pull out, I tell her (which I always do) that I cheated. In return, she inserts an anti-pullout pin during her determined punishment period. We got several different pins to try out for play. Some are quite uncomfortable (especially when she’s teasing me on purpose), so I’d prefer not having them in all the time. That’s our little training program for security. Otherwise, we can always use a small belt if needed.

MM has been very courteous. There were a few corrections needed over the last three months, and MM responded quickly to address these issues. My only complaint is that some of these fixes could arguably have been avoided in my opinion. But they stuck to their guns (as did I), even though I worried I was becoming more of a nuisance when problems arose with devices like this during playtime—it can be very frustrating.

However, as I write this now, all the frustrations so far have been worth it, and I look forward to dealing more with MM in the future. I hope this helps others decide which device works for them. If you have questions, comments, or advice, please let me know. I highly recommend MM if you are serious about chastity or just curious. No pre-fabricated device offers the comfort of a properly sized custom one. Plus, there’s hand-crafted artistic beauty to these devices that I don’t see in others. It makes me feel extra special.:lol:

Happily Trapped