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Hello, On October 1st of 2010, I chose to experiment with “permanent” chastity. While I have locked myself away for extended stretches before, my personal best has only been ten days. Perhaps this time will be different. I’m quite eager:) Here are a few suggestions for enduring long-term confinement, starting with my own experiences: (*) Previously, the primary reason I gave up was feeling unclean. Sweating inside the device during the day made it uncomfortable to bear. Showering would refresh me and make me feel clean again, but that freshness wouldn’t last through a full 24 hours. So here is my advice: shower TWICE daily—quickly in the morning and more thoroughly in the evening. Rinse your chastity gear well each time with strong water. This routine works wonders for me. I sleep peacefully at night because I am clean, and I remain focused during the day without distraction. (*) I also opted to wear string panties as a constant reminder of my state. However, I encountered an issue where part of my scrotum would poke out from beneath them, which looked rather odd. My solution is to cut off the foot section of a pair of pantyhose (keeping it short enough) and slide it over the chastity tube—I use a CB-3000 model. The soft nylon covers everything completely. If your nylon color matches your panties, no one will notice. I personally like black ones best. This method offers several benefits: it looks tidy; there is a pleasant sensation when you stroke your balls through the fabric; and the nylon acts as a buffer between your testicles and thighs (rubbing the delicate skin of your balls against your legs can sometimes be quite painful, particularly in warmer months). (*) After climaxing, I always feel like someone has pulled me out of a dream: “What on earth am I doing? Am I going mad?” And I want to remove the device and return to being an ordinary man. This is tricky because while I enjoy confinement, I still crave release occasionally. How do you reconcile both needs? Tell yourself repeatedly: “After my climax, I will not quit. I refuse to give up. I am putting myself back in chastity because it benefits me.” Once you truly believe this, go ahead and seek that relief. Then stay in bed for 15 minutes afterward! Stay still. You might feel the urge to return to your usual routine, but that impulse will pass within a few moments. This window is crucial; do not back out now if you have reached this point. If you are under the care of a Mistress, she can hold your hands in place, but without her supervision, you must exercise great discipline. I used to quit frequently right after climaxing, and I am determined not to repeat that error. Staying locked brings pride for resisting temptation. To further lower my risk of relapse, I have decided from now on to experience orgasms while still wearing the device. “Unfortunately,” (or perhaps fortunately?) it is quite easy to reach release within the tube. Honestly, it feels amazing—much better than using my hand:) I like picturing my small glans enclosed in a plastic sheath. Whenever that thought crosses my mind, I am happy to remain confined. Being forced into a tight enclosure around the clock is no hardship at all:) (*) Post-shower, I ensure my package is dry and apply lubricant around the A-ring. I also add some cream INSIDE the tube near the head of my penis. This allows the shaft to glide smoothly within the confines when an erection occurs. I look forward to hearing your own tips as well. Anne-Lore