Introductions discussion

Dear members, we are a 47…well maybe more of 48 by now:sad:year old couple into BDSM, rubber fetish & also since 8 years into male chastity. It is not a 24/7 lifestyle for us. What we usually do is, in preparation of a BDSM session, for 1 to 2 weeks in advance I get locked up as soon as I come home in the evening until next morning. In the weekend I’m locked up during the day as well. We would very much like to extend this maybe to 24/7 but I would need another belt for that. I now have two goethals but they are heavy and very hard to hide under your clothes and I must add not very comfortable for long wear. I also have a CB3000 but I keep getting my skin pinched and small wounds and oedemas on my penis. I am maybe a little bit “big” for the standard CB3000 tube. And anyway it is important for us that, while locked, there is no escape possible without the KH’s help. And I’m sorry to say but this plastic thingy might work for some but it is not the reallife inescapable hard security - no touching-no cumming we are looking for. We are thinking about a Neosteel. We also loved the scenario’s about longer chastity combined with milking sessions. We will start an experiment in a few weeks. It would not be milkings (mistress is not very into “anal”) but rather ruined orgasms as humiliation & to highten the built up tension. Any advice and suggestions more than welcome. Ren & Sonja