Introductions discussion

Oh my goodness, I despise these “introductory” posts… ( deep breath ) Alright, let’s begin. I’m in my forties but appear much younger. I identify as a 23.5 crossdresser and unsurprisingly, live on my own. The reason for the 23.5 is that while I embrace it fully, I don’t flaunt it aggressively or force my lifestyle down people’s throats; yet I also don’t get anxious about heading out in public wearing feminine attire. I have a submissive nature but I’m not indecisive… generally avoiding the ‘sissy maid’ cliché - when I take on domestic duties, I do so with purpose… there is real work to be accomplished and I execute it competently. Yes, I possess practical skills: ironing, operating washing machines, and frankly, I cook quite well. So leave behind the image of a drag queen or delicate sissy maid; instead picture someone like an ideal girlfriend or sister… provided they always wear skirts - lol As mentioned, my submissiveness is genuine but not overdone. I yearn to serve another person because that individual matters more than the act of serving itself. Mental and emotional connection and compatibility are crucial to me; I don’t just ‘play around’… admittedly, no one has ever asked ( lol ) I truly adore chastity for numerous reasons - primarily as a gift offered to my mistress ( apply via postcard - lol ), knowing she holds ultimate authority while I remain at her mercy; yet let us not overlook the persistent physical reminder that she is in charge. I am preparing to move up to a quality steel belt, but beforehand I would like to secure a key holder… simply because it feels appropriate. Bondage and rubber also appeal greatly to me, and I have begun training as a pony girl. If the concept of locking someone inside a wooden box while sitting atop it, giggling softly as you read your book for an hour or two sounds good to you… then let’s converse… he he Well, that concludes my update. Just note that I’m not actively hunting for anyone specific; I simply enjoy chatting with people and if a connection develops, wonderful, but if it doesn’t, that is equally fine. So if you are ever near East Anglia in the UK, say ‘Hello’, share some coffee and homemade chocolate cake… trust me, it will be worth your while.