Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

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Hey CM I was wondering how many guys are into being locked in chastity by their wife or girlfriend but aren’t submissive in daily everyday life? Sometimes I struggle mentally with really wanting to live this life but sometimes it’s hard when I’m not in sexual situations where I’m in alpha mode. My gf has been on board with keeping me locked but after she allows me to have sex and after I orgasm it’s realllllly hard for me to want to go back in the cage even though I know in my head in a few days I will crave it again. I feel bad going back and forth with it and after a few failed attempts I really want to get into it. I struggle with the initial week or two especially after she allows me an orgasm. Any tips on all of this? Thanks guys!

member_826c674a46 · Answer

I've had similar struggles. I have to try to force myself into that mode. The easiest thing is to simply lock up immediately after climax. You will not want to do it. I've found the quicker I lock up the quicker I lose the feeling that I don't want to be chaste.

member_35bebfe372 · Answer

It's tricky. My wife and I have always been equals in our relationship. Our solution in the end was having a Domme friend be in charge of my chastity. Changing roles or natural chemistry within an existing relationship is always difficult.

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