Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

To get everyone current, I’ve been a dominant partner for years and have always loved chastity in all its forms. My submissive wife was aware that I had experimented with being locked before we met, but earlier this year I proposed the idea of me taking on restraint myself, which she approved. Now she has been locking me up for progressively longer periods, and clearly enjoying it. On Monday, Locktober came up in conversation. She is keen for me to remain locked throughout October, though my schedule includes several medical procedures and international trips that will necessitate unlocking. My wonderfully submissive wife cheerfully suggested, “I think a two-for-one ratio works well. For every day you spend unlocked during October, you’ll owe me two days.” I readily agreed it sounded like a great plan. Later in the day, I pondered further twists to this arrangement. Earlier that morning, when we discussed details, I proposed some additional rules: any unpaid days at month’s end get doubled. Also, since we are polyamorous, if I go on a date (and am willing to accept the penalty), I can unlock. Her reply was immediate. “Oh, two-for-one is too lenient for dating unlocks. It should be four-for-one! You need to decide if she’s truly worth it!” So here we stand now: penalties of two days per unlocked day generally, but four days per date-related unlock, with a doubling clause at month-end. The future holds the prospect of mounting chastity debt, particularly if I wish to continue dating. As they say…beware what you ask for!