Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

You ought to yield to her wishes. Avoid dominating or ruling from above; be hers and let your cock belong to her. I used to insist on strict schedules (like two weeks, a month, or three months), but my wife cherished the power dynamic more than the rules. She liked being unpredictable while I was trying to stick to the timetable. Perhaps your girlfriend is enjoying the authority she has over you. Let her do as she pleases and put her in charge. You will benefit from this approach. For our relationship, I let go of all my expectations. She really thrived once I truly handed over complete control and ownership of my **orgasm**, masturbation, and sexual satisfaction to her. It never worked right until I surrendered control for real. It’s not as easy as it sounds; I make it seem simple enough. But if you start pushing your preferences on things she doesn’t care about, then she isn’t truly in charge. Trust me—she is often more aware than we give her credit for. There are times when I tell my keyholding wife something new, only to realize she already knew. Lastly... If you are leaning towards cuckolding, this might not be the thread for me. I haven’t tried it much myself, but I know it requires honest and open communication. Don’t underestimate how important it is that both partners get their needs met, not just one person getting off on a concept. Prioritize her desires above all else, and you will have a wonderful experience. Let her surprise you.

Thanks for the response!