Introductions discussion

My husband and I are fairly new to chastity and FLR. When my husband first brought up the subject of buying a chastity device I was floored. Honestly, I had no idea this existed (I have led a fairly sheltered life evidently). He explained the basics to me and sent me links to different blogs and forums. I’m not going to lie, I was put off by my initial research. So many of the web sites dealing with chastity and FLR are pure fantasy fiction. Of course I didn’t realize that at first. I thought there is no way a 50 something basically vanilla woman can become the Dom my husband expects. Needless to say we had several more discussions. After he reassured me he wasn’t wanting the extreme Dom/sub relationship I agreed to give it a try. Over the course of a few weeks we worked out a fairly tame routine. He is in chastity 24/7 except for doctors visits, cleaning and play sessions. Since I am not normally a dominant person we started with a couple of simple rules that would be easy for me to enforce. He is to be naked at home unless our kids and grandkids are around, he is to wait for me to take the first bite before he can begin eating, and he is to stand by the bed until I get in, then he can get in. These simple rules have worked out well for us. We recently added discipline to our routine. I’m not confident in my disciplinary ability but I am working on it. I came to the mansion in hopes of advice and new ideas to aid in my evolution. I am determined to be the best key holder I can be.