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After taking some advice.... My willing slave and I have dipped our toes into chastity, but now we are keen to commit fully. We were just wondering if a contract actually serves a useful purpose? Also, who is responsible for the initial fitting of the cage? I am still getting used to it, and needing his help can slightly dampen the mood. I would love to sneak it on him while he sleeps, but I think we are not quite there yet!!!

member_e9e588d0c3 · Answer

For me, a contract is only necessary if you feel the need for one. It isn't essential for me, but it might make sense to have everything spelled out on paper, or even add an erotic touch by displaying your relative status visually. As for putting it on, don't worry about that just yet. I find it equally humiliating and sexy to lock myself up and hand over my key as it is to have someone else do it for me. I am sure you will discover what works best for you.

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