Introductions discussion

Greetings everyone, I’m fairly new to this place and also relatively fresh to chastity life. About a year and a half ago, I connected with a lady online; in short, she mentioned being a Mistress to three other women, which instantly got me excited. As we chatted more, I really started appreciating her dominant nature.

A bit of background: my marriage lasted roughly 9 years but felt as stale as bread that old—both our faults for sure—but it was bland and dull. I wanted someone completely different from my ex-wife, and I believe I’ve found just that person.

We figured it would be enjoyable for me to hand over control of my cock and cum while being locked up. After discussing what we each sought, we settled into a tease-and-deny rhythm rather than diving deep into humiliation or cuckolding dynamics (no dislike there; we still want sex, but prefer having fun during our separation). I absolutely love this setup 100%; my only hiccup is that my cock seems too large for standard “off the rack” cages. Right now, I wear a leather cage, though I have to remove it for sanitary reasons since it’s made of leather. However, I plan to order a custom cage from Mature Metal soon because she gets so aroused thinking about controlling her man’s cock and cum, which turns me on too. Honestly, I even purchased a clear box for the keys along with a remote lock that she can manage (we live in different states—forgot to mention that earlier). Anyway, eager to dive into these boards and learn more about this lifestyle; my Mistress is wonderful, and I look forward to giving her full control over my cock and cum for as long as she desires.