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Hello.
I am the female dominant in our relationship. We have been together a long time, we started BDSM at his request not long into the relationship but we have only been using the chastity device for about a year. I think I'm too easy on him. I work hard and we have 3 children so it's hard to find the balance. I find myself getting annoyed at his suggestions but at the same time, i get that this is his kink and he works hard too. I love that he does more housework and helps out more. I feel like this COULD work very well, maybe its just a bit one-sided on the enjoyment side. Just wondering if anyone else was in a similar situation and had some pointers?

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I find this similar to me and my Queen but I got reading on here and I just let her go at her own pace and see how it goes and have to say there is no pressure on her now and she enjoys it just got to take it a day at a time. Us men would of been thinking all sorts like what you see in the porn films it’s never going to happen and the sooner we all admit it then we will not feel the stress too. Just tell him to let you do it your own way your own rules and if your like my Queen you will really enjoy it and brave it. I get teased now by my Queen in ways I wouldn’t think off and it’s great so it’s nice to be more laid back and just let it happen slowly we have thought of this for years for you it’s still new it takes time to adapt

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