Introductions discussion

Hello! I’m eager to see how unique my case is—I wouldn’t be surprised if others here are in similar shoes! I do switch roles, but never with the same individual (I’ve tried it and find it ruins the vibe for me). My spouse leads a normal life outside of my kinkiness; she’s not deeply involved but knows what I’m up to and supports it. I have submitted myself to several women over time, including one who held control for three and a half years recently. Chastity has been part of the mix intermittently, with my longest continuous lockup lasting roughly three weeks. Lately, a friend agreed to take charge of my key and be quite strict. I’ve now spent five weeks in the cage (with just one exception when I had what might be my final “last” orgasm—good heavens!). My Keyholder allows intercourse but prohibits climaxing. She sets rules like “three hours only, no more!” which help me enjoy sex while remaining chaste. Initially, her role was simply holding the key, but she has become increasingly demanding. It’s a new arrangement for us and so far it is lovely. I found this forum searching for tips on navigating airport security with a cage in place. Flying isn’t an issue, though I admit there can be some awkwardness. My KH actually hopes someone catches me and causes embarrassment—I wouldn’t mind that at all.:blushes: It’s great to find others who share these interests. Also, I wear a custom device from Lori which locks through my apadravya piercing. It stays put very securely.