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I’ve been feeling quite ordinary lately, with kink and chastity taking a back seat for several months. That said, I managed my longest stretches locked towards the end of last year—11 days in October followed by 14 in November! My keyholder was online; she lives nearby but works abroad most of the time. She’s experienced and very supportive. Still, it felt hard to get on with daily life because everything about it became incredibly distracting, making it difficult to focus on anything else. This contrasts sharply with what some chaste guys report: a sense of freedom that lets them pour their energy into other passions.
I believe if I had a partner who really enjoyed locking me up, I’d stick with it. But am I better off continuing or just letting the whole thing go?