Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

So I recently met a very dominant girl who seems absolutely perfect for me, she is into pretty much every kink I am, and more on top of that! So far things have been going pretty well and I have been really enjoying our relationship. We are both very into chastity, but she especially gets off on complete and total chastity, like no teasing, no erections but long term hardcore chastity. Even going so far as only allowing it to be taken off every 3-5 days to clean in the shower supervised, with SEVERE punishment for any erection. Now I am very much into chastity, but previously whenever I have done this it has always come along with tease and denial. I am finding it a little difficult to deal with. I can’t say she ignores my chastity and forgets about it she actually loves it and is constantly grabbing it and playing with the cage in her hands at every opportunity. Is there anyone out there in a similar situation who has some advice? I think she knows how hard it is to be in complete chastity and thats what gets her off so much, which I love. I’m just finding it VERY difficult to deal with.