Introductions discussion

Greetings, I’ve been lurking for ages and this is my debut post. First off, thanks a ton for all the info dump. Seriously!!! Chastity has been part of my life for several years now, with my super spanky partner. Hehe She’s simply the best! We started our dynamic four years ago as dom/sub. The funny twist? I was actually the dominant one back then. Times have shifted, lol. The roles flipped completely when I spotted an ad for chastity gear on a popular fetish site. Today marks my second piece of equipment from Mature Metal. Yes, I totally messed up measuring myself! Crazy right? I began with standard CB models, upgraded to the Holy Trainer (which was better but wore out fast and became useless). Then I spent some serious cash on the real deal—a custom-made jailbird from Mature Metal. The device is gorgeous!! However, it turned out too large! My erect size is 8 inches, while soft is about 2-1/4 inches. So I ordered a 2-inch model following their guide. The diameter ended up being 1-1/2 inches wider than needed!! It was manageable during the day, but nights were an absolute nightmare! The cage gave my cock too much room to expand overnight, waking me with burning sensations and testicles feeling like they were being pulled apart. I tried sticking it out, but couldn’t make it work. That’s when the community helped. On a particularly amorous day, I visited here. And boy did I learn! Everything was wrong!! The key takeaway: my cage was too spacious; it shouldn’t allow any expansion at all. So I ordered another device: 1-1/2 inches long and 1-1/4 inches in diameter. It came with two double rings and two single rings of different sizes. Essentially, it’s tiny! Super small! Micro-sized! LOL I was so thrilled to get a smaller fit that I just had to share. No clue if this will work for me or not, but here goes nothing, hoping it helps anyone else facing similar issues. My initial reaction: “Wow, that’s little.” After putting it on: “Oh wow, really tiny!” But after wearing it for a few hours, it feels incredibly comfortable. I’ll be posting updates over the next couple of days. Feel free to ask me anything! No question is too silly; I’ve explored nearly every aspect of chastity in the last two years. Don’t hesitate! Neither will I. And huge thanks to Mature Metal!!!