Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

My wife and I are currently practicing chastity in our FLR, but I’ll stay uncaged. Given my job and leisure activities, being constantly caged is too disruptive; it’s easier to go back and forth between caged and uncaged states. Plus, since I have to unlock myself most of the time anyway, keeping me locked feels like self-denial rather than her denying me.

I understand that remaining uncaged while trusting my wife is essentially similar to being in a cage. By staying chaste until she says otherwise, I am honoring our relationship structure and respecting her as head. We both appreciate how this has shifted my attitude toward her and increased the attention I give her.

Has anyone else experienced playing with chastity while remaining uncaged? How did it work for you? For me, the biggest challenge (pun intended) is still enjoying an erection whenever and wherever I choose. It serves as a constant reminder that I can cheat if I want to.