Introductions discussion

Greetings everyone, My girlfriend and I have spent six years together, experimenting with chastity along with other activities (including some cross-dressing and toys) for a couple of those years. We began using the CB-6000s but got serious about it last year by switching to an MM Jailbird for longer wear times and better hygiene. My longest lock has been roughly two weeks. I’ve currently been locked up for five days and am set to be released in 25 more, which will break my personal record and offer quite the experience. I’m really excited! Since I usually initiate everything and show her new things, there are still several areas where she feels uneasy. Our main challenge lies in finding that happy medium between what I desire and what suits her comfort level. We’re living apart this year, so she appreciates how being locked makes me more attentive to her needs and wants. She likes the version of me when I’m chaste, as do I myself. However, while I crave a structured system of rules and punishment, it can sometimes overwhelm her. Any advice from others in similar positions who want more than their keyholder is comfortable providing would be greatly appreciated! -hornchast