Female led relationships discussion

I’ve spent the last few days negotiating with my mistress, trying to convince her that I’d be a much better submissive if she enforced a contract I signed, one where rules and punishment are clearly defined. We’ve practiced chastity for over a year now, but lately, I feel like my mistress is becoming slightly more vanilla than before. We both still enjoy it, yet I sense I’m getting complacent and less eager to leap at her commands. I want things to escalate just a bit more to reignite the fire in us that was so intense during our first year. I know she isn’t bored—I unlocked for a couple of months earlier this year and she hated not practicing chastity.

Does anyone else have thoughts or gone through something similar? I get that patience is key with chastity, but I don’t think I’m wrong to ask for things to become a bit more serious given how long we’ve been at it.