Introductions discussion

I’m a seventy-year-old heterosexual man who has spent the last couple of years delving into my feminine side. I usually wear a bra and panties beneath my everyday men’s clothing, and sometimes I dress completely en femme. Having been married for thirty years, our intimacy has faded over time. Chastity has piqued my interest lately; I recently placed an order for a Houdini cage and am waiting for it to arrive.

My intention is to get used to wearing the device until the fit feels right before bringing up the concept with my wife/Mistress as a way for her to manage my masturbation. I hope this will rekindle her interest in our sex life and encourage her to take on a more active role. I am ready to give up erections and self-pleasure if it means making this work.

Are there any men here who began their Chastity journey privately before sharing the idea with their partner? If so, please share your experiences.

I look forward to picking up as much knowledge as possible from this site! SissyWannabe