Female led relationships discussion

I’ve spent plenty of time on both sides of the cage. I’m now certain that I am definitely a switch, with my dominant side leaning more toward chastity play as well. My question to you other ladies is: What is the most important trait for a Domme to have when Keyholding?

For my last sub, I sort of applied Pavlov’s Dog theory. I made them associate orgasms with me. I played mind games until this person was convinced I knew everything about what makes their sexuality tick, even though in fact I had just conditioned the responses. It is a bit risky looking back on it now, but hey, I’m young and prone to mistakes.

Also, a question for you subs: What is your favorite trait in a Domme or Mistress? I enjoy when people know what they want and take it. I realize that’s vague, but those who beat around the bush and don’t know exactly what to do bore me.

Toodles, Rachel