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Amidst the recent buzz over Pro Dommes and scammers, I wanted to share my perspective. Anyone who has followed me on cm from the start knows I arrived with little experience but plenty of excitement. The community welcomed me and taught me much about this delightful realm of chastity. I became a keyholder online and secured several men via the web back then. It was a great time. I soon understood the roles of fantasists, wannabes, and how much daily maintenance it requires. Thus, I created a site to share my path into this world of chastity, along with my Twitter presence. Yes, I have an Amazon wishlist; yes, I charge for padlocks; and yes, I set up ways for my chaste males to show appreciation here. Yet, I didn’t view myself as a Pro Domme because I didn’t take formal bookings or lock men without prior contact. My initial idea was that being single allowed me to assist the many guys seeking locks online. I adored chastity and the sound of the lock clicking on webcam brought me joy. But months later, my schedule tightened up. The volume of requests for locking and detailed control became too much. So, I decided to start charging for these services, even securing chamber access for personal sessions. Does that qualify me as a Pro Domme? It hinges on your definition. I don’t process credit cards or charge just for website/chatroom entry. Nor am I a findom siphoning money and gifts to prove devotion. I don’t chase men; I simply continue my usual routine of posting, chatting, and enjoying myself. My site costs are barely met, which suits me. Essentially, I remain the same person as when I began, but now I have a system to separate fantasists from realists. If you believe my time isn’t worth more than a dinner date or some flowers, then perhaps we aren’t the right match for each other. To some, I am a Pro Domme; to others, just a mistress who values her hours.