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So we were roughly a week into my time being locked up. My Keyholder decided to take me out for a thorough cleaning, go hiking in the mountains together, and then lock me back up. However, after removing the “device”, I noticed that on the underside of the penis next to the scrotum, the skin had been rubbed off, leaving a popped blood blister along with a couple of smaller scabs. Bummer!! I think that optional anti pull-out device (which I believe is called KSGD3) provided excellent grip and then some. Eventually it just rubbed my skin right off the area. For the past two days, I’ve been using Neosporin and staying out of chastity altogether. I have read that a “booboo” down there is a big red flag and you should stop everything immediately. So we are:( We were having such fun with chastity, and both of us were just getting into the mind games involved. I have been locked up in the same device before for about the same amount of time without issues (though with less commitment), so I am scratching my head as to what went wrong? Now when she licks me, I always go into the device “dry” with no lube. It takes longer but feels cleaner and is more secure. Was it a mistake not using a lubricant (Eros, wet platinum??) that could have prevented such an injury? Did I fail to maintain something properly? We really need your help please as we want this to work. Initially this really took the wind out of my sails wondering if chastity would ever truly work for us. Now that I’m feeling much better, I can’t wait to give it another go. She has allowed me no stimulation or pleasure and wants me back into chastity tomorrow before she goes to work. I’m a bit worried it may be too soon but I look about 98% healed down there. Please advise everyone and thank you. Love the forums here!! Merry Christmas to you all!!