Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

Hey there, - just had my release after being locked up for 24 days (with supervised cleaning every day), so I have a clear mind to seek your advice:-) During those 24 days, I received my custom-made Steelworxx Steelheart featuring an anatomical ring, an integrated lock, and PA fixing. It’s a wonderful piece all together - (this isn’t just commercial hype; I’ve tried several CBT devices but this is the one!) I have read so many times to “Go get steel,” and you will never look back. Now I know they were right!:-) There truly will be no turning back. Well, the thing is that with previous CBTs my wife used to lock them using a padlock engraved with things like “Owned by,” which helped me mentally a lot in the initial phase of Chastity. With the integrated lock on the Steelheart (I have to post pictures on my profile and change my avatar to something more sophisticated, by the way…), there is no obvious indication to whom I belong. One could argue that the very fact my wife is the keyholder to an unbreakable CBT should suffice, but I need a bit more than that. I believe this is pretty basic for many of you guys who are in chastity? When we are out in public, everything right now stays hidden below. We have agreed to wear fingerings - actually wedding rings:-) inside engraved with “Owner of…” and “Owned by…” respectively. I was instructed to order them yesterday, just prior to my release (My wife has impeccable timing:-) My ring is to NEVER come off. NEVER! Yours will be on most of the time. She has told me that when she wears her owner-ring, I have to closely monitor her finger when we are in public or around the kids (Yes, we have kids:-) If she discreetly turns her ring, I must remain silent. If for any reason she is not satisfied with my behavior, lack of service, or an opinion she disapproves of, or anything else, she just has to point at her ring and I have to obey (or ask for instructions if her wishes are somewhat unclear to me). If she can get away with it, she still intends on squeezing my loose balls hard under the Steelheart CBT. That part is something I would not miss - lol!! I would like to hear from others about your experiences taking control outside of the bedroom and household. Any clever yet somewhat discreet ways of constantly being reminded of her ownership and control, as well as your submissiveness? Let me know! Sincerely, BlueEyes