Finding Joy in the State of Being Held

I realize plenty of us hit those rough patches where our keyholder just doesn’t appear to care much about our chastity. I’ve experienced them myself. They certainly never forget that we are locked away, but it often feels as though they have.

Today seems like one such day for me, perhaps because the routine pressures of daily life have been weighing heavily on Melissa lately. On days just like this, I am trying to discover how to find joy simply in being held by her.

I keep reminding myself:

1. She holds the reins. If she isn’t feeling it, then that is fine.
2. Just four days ago, she showered me with lovely attention. My needs haven’t been overlooked. In truth, she has a natural talent for this role.
3. She allowed me to give her back rubs and foot massages. She lets me demonstrate my devotion through various small acts around the house that make her life easier.
4. The metal feels good on its own merits. I have dreamed of this state for years. She truly controls my cock. If she prefers to leave it alone for a while, that is her prerogative. I enjoy feeling it pull against the steel and find no slack.
5. We are both new at this. I need to let her figure out what works best for her without constantly offering “advice.”

So, those are some of the methods I use to get through the low periods. Does anyone else have their own strategies? Michael