Our Experience Together

I’ve already signed up with a site which is but my husband wants us to share our experience, so here it goes. Let me warn you: it’s not exactly thrilling, but it’s real life for us. Thank you It was almost three years ago that I had a big argument with my husband of 23 years. The main issue was how distant he seemed to be becoming or perhaps already had become from me. I would handle the usual daily chores and by dinner time, I was exhausted; I’d take a bath and head straight to bed! My husband wouldn’t join me until many hours later, and this routine continued for years. I got used to being woken up when he climbed into bed and then spending those remaining hours trying to drift back off! One night while he was out at the pub, I had finally had enough. So, I checked his laptop! It was still on with the screen low, and lo and behold, his internet history was full of ‘Dommes’, Mistress’s, etc. I read some of his messages, and it shocked me! My husband was basically living a second life online! To say I was upset is an understatement; I was absolutely furious! I opened a bottle of wine, took it along with his laptop to bed, and kept reading! Naturally, I fell asleep. When I woke up later, he was trying to take the laptop back! Startled, I yelled at him for being so pathetic, asking how dare he ignore me while flirting with fake people online whom he’d never actually meet in real life! It must have been years since we made love or even shared an intimate moment! He stood there in shock and retreated to the living room. I promptly fell asleep again. The next morning, he had prepared breakfast and woke me up! I said we need to have a serious talk! Yes, he agreed. He opened up about his secret life and revealed that he had wanted to tell me but had become addicted to this other world. I asked why couldn’t he just told me!! He started crying!!!! Then he confessed that he adored me and would masturbate thinking of me! Why?? I am lying in bed alone for heaven’s sake! Then the bombshell dropped: He wanted to be locked in chastity? WTF! Until then, I honestly thought that chastity was a medieval custom only meant for fair maidens! After a very long conversation and many more tears, I said let’s give it a try because I love him very much and am open-minded. Still found it odd though! So we bought a device from a kinky shop in town and put it on that same night! I wasn’t sure what was in it for me at first. That night, after two hours, he was in so much pain we had to take it off! It went like that until he purchased a better quality product. The difference was clear: after a few weeks, he actually became more considerate and started coming to bed with me. Suddenly I am being pampered; yes, I am having orgasms, lots of them! I felt weird seeing him go without at first, but that didn’t last long! We don’t keep strict tabs on how many days he is locked up etc., but it has now been several months and I’m pleased to say we are closer than ever before. He isn’t using those sites anymore! He did find this one here. With me sitting right next to him, yes, he suggested I write about our experience because so much ‘chastity’ content seems fake, but ours is real. I am not really a ‘domme/Mistress etc., but I am in charge! I even stopped his drinking! We now spend more time together and he worships me now! Fantastic!