Introductions discussion

Hello everyone. I just recently discovered the world of chastity properly, and this site has been a goldmine for information in my first month here.

Here is how it all started: My girlfriend and I have been together for almost four years now, but we haven’t moved in together yet. Her place is only about a mile from mine, so I stay over three or four times a week. Recently, however (over the last two to three months), my libido has outpaced hers. I found myself watching more porn and masterbating on my own at night while living in my house—something she didn’t entirely mind but noticed. We ended up having less sex as a result.

I don’t quite recall how I first stumbled upon chastity, but after finding it, I brought it up to her about six weeks ago. She agreed half-jokingly that I probably did need to be locked up.

About two weeks later, I nervously bought one of these devices and took it over to her place, handing her the box with the keys inside. I was terrified she’d think it was ridiculous or hate it, but (as if you needed reminding how amazing she is) she laughed, showed interest, and said anything that kept me from wanking at my porn was a win.

The first week was an incredible turn-on for me; knowing she controlled my cock while I was locked up during the day and night when we were apart. I did keep one key in my car just in case of emergencies or if I couldn’t handle it anymore. It’s hard to say what made me hornier: being physically locked by her, or feeling like a metal hand was constantly squeezing my cock as a reminder that I belonged to her right now. A bit of a chicken-and-egg situation.

Then two things happened. First, I realized the device is actually pretty useless for keeping my cock securely locked because it slips out easily in the bath with soapy water. Second, since I’m decent at DIY, I decided I could bend and modify it to make it more secure. Unfortunately, I soon learned that despite being advertised as steel, it was made of cast Zinc which cracked almost immediately. Very disappointing! I filed it down and sanded it smooth, then locked it back on, but resolved to buy a better quality one.

During this time, I did jjack off to porn and confessed to my girlfriend, so now she holds all the keys. She seems to be really embracing the whole chastity lifestyle. I dream of being permanently locked by her, with release only for sex when needed. Our sexual relationship has improved immensely (even though it’s still early days), and she constantly asks how my cock is feeling and praises this brilliant idea. Today she even said that all wives/girlfriends should have their men locked up.

Even if the frequency of our sex drops back to previous levels, I am fantasizing about having a cock cage as a good substitute for constant attention. How weird is that?

I will try posting pictures soon: one of my first useless cage (which I don’t recommend anyone buy) and the second ringed cage that should be arriving shortly.