Personal ads - Looking for a keyholder or sub? discussion

I’ve been busy updating my profile. The bio says I talk too much:’( So, I guess I’ll just put it here. Hello, I’m highly intelligent and doing reasonably well in my career. I consider myself a very kind man (or boy, depending on your preference). And I’m still working hard to turn that ‘moderate’ success into something exceptional:) As for my sexuality, I used to call myself a switch, and I suppose I still am one occasionally. But that’s not really what fuels my desires or keeps me up at night or occupies my thoughts when I touch myself. When those moments happen, it’s always about submitting to someone who is my equal. The concept of chastity plays a large role in this (much to the quiet amusement of some parts of my mind; nothing amuses me more than realizing I’m fantasizing about not being able to masturbate while actually doing so:D For years, I’ve enjoyed tease and denial games with various girlfriends. Then, a few years ago, chatting online with a lovely woman planted the seed of being locked up in my mind; it slowly grew into something that really appealed to me. Shortly after that, I bought a device. I tried it for a day but promptly forgot about it, leaving it gathering dust in a drawer for months. To be honest, at the time, I didn’t quite see the appeal. Later on, someone else locked me up for two weeks. Although I was badly burned by how that particular experience ended, it felt totally different:) So yes, I guess I’ve started thinking about it again and have begun looking once more. I haven’t felt quite so owned (and vulnerable) in a long time, and I’d like to experience that feeling again with someone special. I plan on being much more careful this time. My goal is to find the right person for me, and this seemed like a good place to start. If you’ve enjoyed reading my thoughts, feel free to message and say hello:) I should mention that while a quick search shows the numbers are definitely in women’s favor here (especially since I acknowledge this isn’t primarily a dating site), none of that matters because I’m looking for something and someone specific. Psychologically, I simply cannot accept second best. But I guess you feel the same way too; perhaps my stubbornness is actually a good thing if it matches what you’re seeking:)