Chastity device reviews discussion

I’ve been sporting my new Mature Metal Queens keep Chastity device for more than a week. Since I rely on your site to review different gadgets, I figured it was time to document what I’ve experienced.

My wife isn’t particularly enthusiastic about the chastity belt/device setup. She puts up with it and finds it somewhat intriguing, but she can’t quite grasp why I bother doing this. As my key holder, she keeps the keys in her nightstand. Honestly, she’d prefer to take mine off rather than keep them on.

Initially, I had tried other devices that worked for short stints but were too uncomfortable for longer wear. Now that I have a Queens keep that fits well, I see why those earlier ones failed me.

This journey began with the realization that my body needed training to accept an extended cock ring fit. The entire scrotum is sensitive and prone to irritation.

I spent a long weekend wearing a heavy 2” cock ring. My wife likes how a well-fitted ring keeps my penis firm and upright when she’s on top. I don’t have much length, but plenty of width: 6” erect and 2.25” flaccid, with a diameter of about 1 3/8”.

I ordered a Double Locking Cock (DLCR) from Mature Metal. It features a 2 1/8” base ring and a 1 3/8” front ring. Structurally, it’s like a cock cage without the actual cage covering the penis, leaving it to hang free.

I wore this on an off-and-on basis for several months before gathering enough courage to leave it in continuously for a month to prove my long-term capability. The main issue was scrotum pinching, which I also experienced with that 2” ring, becoming quite uncomfortable over time. Based on readings from Alterboy’s website over the years, unrelieved pinching can become serious. So, while the extra sizing of the new DLCR offered more comfort than before, there was still a tendency for the bottom of my scrotum to pinch and ache eventually. I could usually reposition things to relieve the pain.

While wearing the DLCR, I struggled with urges not to masturbate. At work, where boredom is common, I found myself spending too much time watching porn—a habit I want to break.

After about 14 days of wearing the DLCR, I worked up the nerve to spend $400 on the Queens keep. It helped that my wife had given me a $200 “Employee of the Quarter” bonus just a day earlier.

I did cheat slightly by taking an anti-inflammatory to reduce edema during training. An over-the-counter herbal supplement combining Bromelain and Quercetin also proved helpful.

Due to previous pinching issues, I requested a 2 1/4” Oval Base ring, a 1 3/8” cock ring, and a 2 ¼” cage length. I chose the cage length based on other reviews here warning that going too short makes devices un-wearable. Deciding between 2” and 2 1/4” was tough for me. I’m still unsure if the smaller size would have worked, but the fit seems acceptable now, and I’ve learned my penis has three distinct modes:

• Total shrivel: where it can invert completely.
• Flaccid: which lifts him to a medium dimension.
• Erect: 6” long and throbbing.

Reaching that third stage at my age requires daily lecithin supplements and a firm cock ring, except on mornings when I wake up exceptionally hard. My wife isn’t usually a morning person for play, though she can be distracted if I stay fully erect with the ring in place while she finishes her bathroom routine.

Total shrivel is often cited as the “pull-out” problem everyone discusses. If my penis stayed in stage two constantly, it wouldn’t matter much. In total shrivel mode, he becomes very pliable. We’ve all heard of showerers vs. growers regarding male anatomy; I suspect showerers will have more satisfactory results with chastity devices than growers, who can shrink down significantly.

The new Queens keep has been on for most of the past week while my wife took charge. We’ve pleasantly discovered a major advantage: keeping the cock cage on makes me MUCH more sensitive during intercourse. I squirm around in bed, breathing heavily and making noise—not moaning loudly, but lots of short, hard breaths—and experience bigger orgasms (which feels like a new development for me). Previously, I just had climaxes; now there’s substance to them. Even though my wife isn’t fully into the concept yet, she appreciates the benefits and might be starting to see it as a good idea.

It hasn’t been all roses, however. Masturbation wasn’t an issue at first while wearing the Queens keep, but after about a week, I could relieve tension by shaking the cage slightly. So we aren’t in that fantasy realm of total masturbation control, though this new orgasm ability is a significant bonus.

I do have some irritation issues. The top left side of my scrotum near the penis was getting pinched and complaining. Massaging it with recommended baby oil helped significantly, allowing for the continuous wear I desire. I’ve started covering the whole package in baby oil, which greatly improves comfort.

There was a short episode where one ball ached; I lay back in my chair, adjusted things, relaxed, and the ache subsided without recurrence since then.

So, I’d give Mature Metal 4 stars, noting that intercourse with my wife has been greatly improved by using this Queens keep device.

I think I’ve identified the cause of the pinch. The skin near the base of the penis doesn’t always slide fully into the tube and gets pinched there. It’s hard to describe precisely, but baby oil helps the skin slide into position correctly. This week at work, I spent a day in pain because one morning, rushing without using oil, things didn’t fit right. Make sure you pull all the penile skin at the base inward. You might need the “Norbert Stocking” trick in some cases.

Anyway, it’s Saturday today, and I hope my wife is past her period so we can play again, since my cock hasn’t left his cage since Wednesday.

I don’t know what will work best for you, but this is what has worked for me. Thank you for your time.