Chastity device reviews discussion

This review reflects the personal, subjective viewpoint of one individual who may not represent the standard anatomical type. If you have faced similar fit and comfort challenges with certain popular designs as this woman describes, these observations might assist you. For those who haven’t had the same issues, please don’t interpret this as a criticism of your preferred device. ------- Executive summary -------- **Update: After four days and nights of continuous wear, it appears that this specific design doesn’t quite meet the goals for this woman and her Ma’am, but that doesn’t mean the Exobelt Extreme is “bad” in any way. It simply isn’t a match for Ma’am’s needs. The rest of this review remains unedited and displays this woman’s progressive impressions over a relatively short wear period. ** The Exobelt Extreme is nothing short of excellent regarding real full-time chastity wear, unlike how most traditional “trapped-balls” designs perform. It’s like the difference between brand-new athletic sneakers you can walk in for miles immediately, versus new stiff leather dress shoes that take forever to break in while calluses form to blunt all the sharp edges. The Extreme isn’t perfect and would benefit from some v1 and v2 design improvements, but there’s a good chance you’ll find a way to make it work well. If you’ve been disappointed by traditional designs in any way, you might be pleasantly surprised by the Extreme. I certainly am! -------- Backstory --------- This woman has tried three different trapped-ball designs previously, but none suited her anatomy: the CB-n000, the Birdlocked, and one of Greene’s chrome-plated steel models (Ringmaster). Essentially, none of these are feasible for full-time chastity for this woman. The rigid-ring designs cause unbearable pain for twenty minutes or more with each nocturnal erection (on the lower scrotum sides), and her balls can easily slip through the smallest gaps on their own accord. All those “grabby” silicone surfaces of the Birdlocked tore up major skin areas (and were hard to keep clean/non-smelly), although it was slightly less painful at night around the base ring. Recently MsTreat asked this woman if she could see whether the Exobelt Extreme might work. After researching pictures/videos/reviews, it seemed like a promising alternative design. We recently received ours and it is indeed quite promising, but not exactly “as designed”! So since this woman uses it in a slightly different manner than intended, and because more than a year has passed since the last Extreme review thread began, she figured it appropriate to start a new one. This will be a “progressive” review where updates with new observations occur periodically. --------- The Goal -------- Our main goal for a chastity device isn’t complete inescapability, but simply that it should: A) be wearable 24/7 full-time, with only occasional removal for a half-hour “conditioning” release, or even no removal at all. And B) if this woman were to escape, it would be effectively impossible to get back into it, so Ma’am knows she escaped. The essential function of any chastity device is removing control of sexual stimulation and release from the wearer. If a device cannot realistically be worn full-time, it doesn’t serve that purpose as effectively. If a design requires you to take it off to sleep, clean thoroughly, or let locked-up flesh recuperate from damage caused by the device, to us it makes the device effectively useless. Not that there’s anything wrong with the fetish value of wearing an impractical device for an evening of dungeon play, but both of us want “the real deal” of chastity that doesn’t need removal for any reason. While this woman has never given in to masturbation when Ma’am wasn’t looking, the knowledge she could if wanted is enough to mar the symbolic effectiveness of a device needing occasional removal. It’s an entirely different story when you know the device stays on permanently and only comes off when the keyholder allows (if ever). We don’t worry about preventing all possible escape, just unnoticed escape. I wouldn’t dare remove a device if caught at it, no matter how much I want to. Ma’am’s punishment would far outweigh any ephemeral pleasure gained from escape. ------- First impression of the Exobelt Extreme ----- The Extreme is a hybrid device featuring a true “penis trap” shell plus a “scrotal anchor” that traps balls too, but at a different angle and configuration than typical base rings in traditional “trapped balls” designs. IMO, the scrotal anchor suffers from the same basic design flaw (for this woman’s anatomy) as every other captive-balls design. Namely, the scrotum anchor is far too small to be practical for her anatomy. Also, the overall design of the anchor and its spacers is frankly way too “pinchy”. There are at least two pinch points on each side, more if stacking multiple spacers. The only fix IMO is creating several different one-piece scrotum anchors of varying lengths and widths, utilizing an asymmetrical curved shape to raise the portion behind balls closer to the perineum relative to pin holes on the shell. But that would be an inventory/tooling nightmare driving up cost significantly. Also, the length of pins and total number of spacers are literally too short/few for her scrotum “gap” and still leave room for proper cock cage fit. This woman is sure Jenny provides additional spacers/longer pins if needed, based on reports/reviews. But as it turns out, for this woman, it’s probably good the default configuration didn’t work. So trying to use the device seriously as designed with the scrotum trap was an obvious no-go within the first 20 minutes of putting it all on. Without using the scrotal strap, pins are too long and there aren’t enough spacers to wear the cage by itself! For people wanting a padlocked solution IMO Jenny should provide a second set of shorter pins just long enough to securely lock the shell closed with nothing but two long spacers inside (one each side). This enables locking the cage onto the penis (no scrotal strap) at any size from largest internal fit to tightest, without needing extra spacers or poking too far above the top. ------ My twist on how to wear it ------- So this woman’s solution was trying wearing only the shell and using zip ties to secure two halves together instead of pins/padlocks! This enables any spacer size inside and creates an extremely low, flat, smooth top profile due to no protruding lock posts/locks. It actually looks pretty good inside panties, like a Ken-doll-shaped flat triangle. Tucked inside panties (or men’s briefs) this way, the scrotum molds into/around shell edges; everything is safely snug so you don’t get sawed by jeans seams, and nothing moves around to be pinched with every position shift. Unlike traditional “trapped balls” designs, the Extreme really fits into panties in this configuration without pins/padlocks. To be fair, Exobelt mentions wearing just the cage alone, but it’s understated/easy to overlook. I had read that but didn’t believe the device would “hang down correctly” or stay on unless anchored back of scrotum. Au contraire! T

the penis trap design works VERY well! And the shell hangs vertically all by itself just by its own design and weight and center of balance. So it’s now been 36 hours of full-time wear right from the get-go, and I’ve slept in it just fine, worn it out doing errands and such just fine, and no discomfort or signs of irritation at all. Not one! No soreness or tenderness or pasty skin or discolored skin anywhere. Yes, it does hurt when you get really aroused, but it’s totally bearable and non-freaky unlike what a fixed base ring does to the sides of my scrotum. I remember falling asleep while it was still hurting during a nocturnal erection last night. Of the four times I remember waking briefly, none of them caused the wide-awake, panicked, sweat-inducing, burning agony for 30 minutes that the base ring devices cause me at night. Not anything close to that. I have no doubt that I’ll probably start sleeping through most nocturnal erections given how relatively minor the pain was. To be more explicit, the pain you feel is localized to your penis, which has appeal as a CBT-style “punishment” for becoming aroused. If you’re into such things, it can create a deliciouly evil feedback loop. The pain of arousal in a typical trapped-balls device is very different. There, you feel mostly pressure around the base of your scrotum and nearly no discomfort in your penis itself. If too much pressure builds for too long without consious regulation (as in a nocturnal “systems check”), the pressure around your scrotum becomes outright burning of symetrical hot spots that isn’t even remotely erotic. Even better, despite the fact that this bitch’s erections all tend to “back up” and swell behind whatever device, pushing it forward quite strongly, the Extreme stayed put exactly where clamped in the shell! Every single trapped-balls design has always been pushed far forward after just a few attempts at erection (or simple gravity), literally exposing the first inch of this bitch’s shaft out the backside of the cage. And stretching the skin around and between the balls so taut that this bitch quickly develops a serious case of “leather butt” throughout the entire region of scrotal flesh that sits underneath the penis. (Which can take nearly two weeks to heal to normal.) In the Extreme, by contrast, everything that is originally placed past the ridge stays firmly in place through the simple magic of the overall configuration created by the small, tight hole in the back plate, followed by a 90-degree downward bend, followed by the broad friction surface and moderate “clamp” of the ridge beneath the middle of your penis. (More like a big, flat, rounded-square hump than a thin ridge.) The glans itself tries to shrink back as far as it can, but it can regress back no further than the portion of meat that is trapped in the middle ridge. The net result is that the end third of your penis stays firmly puffed out at the front end of the ridge no matter how you move, how your penis wants to expand or shrivel naturally, or how often or dramatically you become aroused. 36 hours of constant wear later, with two showers, 10+ full erection attempts, walking/sitting/driving, etc. and it hasn’t budged from its trapped position. And this is all on the widest set of internal spacers and this bitch’s clitty is only 4-ish inches long to begin with! -------- The importance of spacing in the shell ----- This bitch is currently wearing the shell with the largest spacer in between the two halves, which leaves a 1/4-inch gap right where the pin holes are and right where the bottom friction ridge is located. As mentioned above, this bitch is not large or meaty in the penis area, and I can comfortably close the shell completely with no internal spacers at all. However, I strongly recommend starting with the largest possible spacers for a few days or a week and then slowly, slowly, slowly working down to smaller spacers if you feel the trap design is not adequately holding you. But like me you might be pleasantly surprisef to find that very little “clamp” is required to firmly trap your penis in place with no fear of slipping partially out or even escaping without a lot of soap/lube and careful extraction. Under normal conditions, it just ain’t gonna happen. (Unlike those traditional designs, ALL THREE of which I have inadvertently slipped right out of under normal conditions!) Why start with the largest possible internal spacers? Because the hole your penis slips through in the back plate is followed by a 90-degree bend, this creates a significant fold and choke point on the underside of your shaft, right where your urethra travels. If the shell is too tight, you can constrict your urethra to the point where very unpleasant things can happen when you try to pee. Your bladder pressure is strong and your urethra is a delicate tube. This bitch let cum dry hard in the tip of her glans one night by falling asleep right after sex. When she got up to pee at 4am and didn’t pry the glans open a little first, there was a lot of burning pain and no pee. Rudely awakened thus, this bitch hurredly pried open the glans. The rest of the pee was painful and…bloody. Fortunately such things heal pretty fast, but it was scary. Why the gross anecdote? Because this bitch got greedy with the Extreme at first and tried it with no internal spacers. First time this bitch tried to pee in it, she was real slow and careful just in case, but guess what happened? Yep. It was not fun. An hour later we put the shell back on with the largest internal spacers and things were fine after that. 24 hours later, everything’s all healed already and no problems peeing now. Although this bitch has learned that even with the largest internal spacer, it’s still best to ensure that you aren’t even slightly aroused when you sit down to pee. Your urethra might be tougher than this bitch’s, but don’t risk it! Start with the largest fit, test how to pee in it carefully, and stop immediately if you feel a burny back pressure and the pee is not coming out free and easy! Once you get the hang of peeing comfortably at the largest fit, you can slowly test using smaller internal spacers if you need to. You might find you can stay just fine with the largest spacers. -------- Esthetics and hygiene -------- It’s pretty obvious that the Extreme is made from the same materials and tools and techniques used to make dental prosthetics such as retainers and night guards. Therefore, each one is hand-cast and has a rough, hand-crafted look and feel. This works to your benefit, because the rougher, unpolished interior surface serves to create a better friction trap. This is no beautiful piece of fetish jewelry that you’d be proud to display for all and sundry at a bdsm party. This does not have cool factor, and you won’t get style points for wearing it. Your penis looks oddly “wrong” in it. However, cool and stylish does not always equate to something that really, truly works. This device is practical, comfortable (unless aroused, lol), and truly wearable long-term. It’s also incredibly hygenic and easy to clean. It has far more air flow and areas to rinse than any of the other designs that this bitch has tried. You need zero lube to get into it and never need to lube or lotion anything. Soap scum that might build up after showers is easy to get to and remove, comfortably, with a Q-tip. This bitch won’t know for sure until the first time Ma’am takes it off, but This bitch suspects that unlike for the Birdlocked and the CB-3000/6000, there will be zero odor when it finally comes off. ------- More soon -------- This will be a progressive review in that this bitch will keep posting impressions and observations about the Extreme at regular intervals in this same thread. Meanwhile, please feel free to add comments and ask questions. Hope you have found this useful and entertaining!