Introductions discussion

Hi there, I’ve been watching from the sidelines for a while and decided it was time to say hello before diving into other sections. I’m a 27-year-old guy from France who has gradually but steadily become drawn to chastity and orgasm control over the past few years.

Right now, I’m in a relationship and have shared my struggles with solo play with my girlfriend, mentioning that devices using lock and key mechanisms can help resolve these issues. At first, she wasn’t very responsive, but after a couple of weeks, she shyly approached me again, saying she’d considered this little “toy” and was willing to give it a go. Still, I got cold feet about the whole commitment and let the topic drop.

I thought that had solved things for good, only for the urge to return even stronger, leading me to purchase a birdlock to test how it felt. Now here I am, unsure of exactly where this path leads but glad to discover there are communities like mine out there. My hope is that I can sort through my thoughts and pick up some knowledge along the way.

On the topic of “how did you find us?”, a simple Google search brought me here. And I really enjoyed what I saw while lurking!:)