Introductions discussion

Greetings to all you chastity enthusiasts. Since I’ve been around more lately, it feels like time for me to say hello.

My wife and I have shared nine years together, with seven of those spent as husband and wife. Back when we first met, I had just made my kinkiness quite public; she was accepting and curious but considered herself a vanilla sort. Or that’s what she believed. Ultimately, I managed to “corrupt” her, and it suited her perfectly.

During our initial years as a couple, we were active in the social scene and really enjoyed New York’s kink community. I’ve presented talks for The Eulenspiegel Society on topics like “Introduction to the Scene,” “Submission with Dignity,” and my personal favorite, “Teasing and Denial.” We have relaxed a bit since those bustling early days, yet we remain deeply kinked, even if we don’t carve out as much time for our passions as we’d prefer.

We’ve experimented with chastity play over the years, but finding a device that works well for long-term wear has been our main challenge. Every year or so, I purchase a new piece of equipment to test. Some have served us better than others, yet generally, we find ourselves ending things sooner than desired (three weeks was our peak) because my sensitive skin gets bothered easily. What appeals most about this play is how it maintains focus on the kink and my submissive role in a way that sustains itself over long periods.

So I’m thrilled to be locked up again, particularly since this time I seem to have zero problems with my current device: the sturdy metal jail bird. For us, chastity play represents a significant element of my submission to her, and it serves as an excellent instrument for teasing and denial. It enables us to function as married partners while simultaneously engaging in 24/7 dynamics.

I look forward to sharing our journey with you all and hearing about your own stories.