Difficulties with wearing a device? discussion

Hi there,

I’ve been away from chastity for a while as life got hectic, but now that I have a better job, I’m ready to get serious about my long-term goals. So, I bought the NeoSteel “the fun” model. It arrived just two days ago.

I’m running into a few issues and hope someone with experience can help—I suspect the rear cable might be too short.

1.) The device sits lower on my hips than I anticipated because the crotch module pulls down quite firmly. It’s pulled low enough that it feels like my crack is almost showing above the belt in the back, but not quite there yet. • Is this normal? Where should you expect a Neosteel to sit?

2.) The belt is digging into my hips a bit when I’m sitting or raising my legs. This happens especially with the tendons running up the front of the hips; lifting my knees really highlights it, particularly on the right side. • Is this normal and will my body adjust, or should I bend the belt in a specific way to improve comfort?

3.) The V-shaped part at the end of the tube is positioned between my perineum and anus. It’s causing chafing and a burning sensation in that spot. • Again, is this normal (and just an adjustment period), or is there a correct bending method to alleviate it?

It’s possible I ordered the rear cable too short, which could be causing all these problems—a real disappointment if so. However, I did use the measuring kit, so hopefully, it’s just something my body needs to get used to.