Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

I’m new to chastity and have a couple of questions. First, I’ve read in the threads about milking; how long should you wait for your first one and then subsequent ones? Second, I plan on doing some manscaping—how often does the cage need to come off for cleaning? These are the types of queries or worries where I’m looking for guidance. I definitely don’t want an orgasm since that would go against my reason for wearing a chastity device in the first place. I want to embrace this lifestyle and figure out what needs to be done to succeed here. Thanks.