Introductions discussion

Greetings everyone! I’ve been lurking for months and now feel it’s time to say hello. I’m a German guy, 41 years old. Lately, I haven’t quite decided if chastity is the right path for me. The curiosity has gotten the better of me, so I picked up an HT knock-off cage that I wear when I’m home alone. My wife hasn’t caught on yet; until now, I just didn’t have enough guts to bring it up with her. Our intimacy has practically vanished over the last three years, meaning I feel quite close to being in chastity even without wearing a device. We only had intercourse three times during 2019, and since my wife is often not in the mood for sex, most of my orgasms come from masturbation. So, if I started using it, she probably wouldn’t notice much difference either way, except that I’d lose the ability to relieve myself on demand. Maybe one day I’ll find the courage to mention it to her. Best regards, Tokli