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As the title suggests, I’m Lucy. At 41 years old and transitioning female (mtf), I’ve been curious about chastity for most of my life. It’s not just a fetish for me; it helps make me a more attentive submissive and aids in gaining better control over my sex drive.
I live within a long-term Female Led Relationship (FLR). Although I am no longer physically locked, I remain in mental chastity, which is actually tougher than physical restraint because the discipline comes from within. Initially, it was hard work for me, requiring months of being physically locked before I could learn enough control to avoid touching what belongs to my Owner. Now, I can proudly state that I’ve gone 18 months without an orgasm while not wearing a device.
Personally, I’d prefer physical chastity because it is frankly easier and lessens the test on my willpower, especially since my Owner enjoys playing with her property for hours at a time while forbidding me to climax. This experience has made me feel like a much more attentive and submissive person overall.
I have quite many fetishes and enjoy a broad range of BDSM activities. However, over the years with my Owner, I’ve sometimes reluctantly learned that some things don’t matter as much as they seem. It was a hard lesson to learn, but it has freed up much of my time so I can better serve and become a better person.
That is essentially my chastity story;) I hope to meet others who share this lifestyle and learn more about it and myself.
Lucy xx