Introductions discussion

hi everyone. I’ve been reading around for a while and have finally decided to join so I can take part in the conversations and get better guidance. A little about me: I’m a man, roughly 28 years old, and I’ve been drawn to BDSM and restraint play as long as I can recall. I’ve been with my partner of seven years now, happily settled into our stable relationship. My lovely future wife is quite supportive of my quirks; she started off fairly vanilla but seems to be enjoying our play days more lately. I’d describe our dynamic as outwardly vanilla but kinky behind closed doors. Occasionally we attend local munches or play parties, though mostly we go there just to chat and discuss rather than engage in active play. I’m not particularly submissive in daily life; it’s more of a cooperative partnership with fairly balanced responsibilities. Perhaps I come across as slightly more assertive outside the bedroom, so I like handing over control in other areas. For the last two or three years, I’ve been experimenting with chastity. Since my work environment (specifically clean room protocols and mandatory specialized attire) makes it difficult to avoid wearing a cage or belt at all times, I’ve settled into weekend play sessions or holiday lockups. I’ve used many different models of devices—from plastic clones to metal ones and full belts, both branded names and Chinese copies. While each has its own feel, I have to admit I haven’t quite found the right cage for sleeping through until morning yet. The belt option was more comfortable, especially since it didn’t try to rip my balls off during vigorous mornings, but mine was a Fetis-Felix copy that was cheaply made and eventually broke. So like many here, I’m still searching for the perfect model. With some training in metal forming, silver smithing, and soldering, I am considering modifying tools or even learning to craft devices myself once my workshop is fully set up. My main reason for joining this forum is to discuss chastity, review devices, gather advice, and find new games or dynamics to try out. Also, just so you know, I live in Canada, so English isn’t my first language. Please forgive any grammatical imperfections.