Female led relationships discussion

I was looking at another discussion and it sparked my interest in what the core pillars of everyone’s FLRs are. Please list a minimum of one and up to four that you can name in your reply. They can be physical, emotional, or a mix of both. My choices would include “love” (emotional), “domination” (physical) along with “control” which covers both aspects.

Love serves as the foundation since my wife and I share affection for one another. When everything else gets complicated, we return to that bond. Couples who love each other express it in various ways. We stumbled upon the advantages of orgasm control by playing a game together simply because we care about each other. Love directs those next two pillars and lets us enjoy them without the fear that might arise if love were missing.

I’m ready to stir up some debate here, but I believe chastity is domination. A keyholder holds power over a man’s orgasm, which constitutes a type of domination. For our couple, this was an entry point into broader domination. Others certainly take it further than we do, while some don’t find much appeal in going as far as we have. Everyone has their own path, but when my wife and I are on the same page, her dominance frees us both.

Control is what tends to pull us back to this lifestyle after any hiatus. She desires it and I want her to possess it. I cannot simply hand control over; she must take charge herself. Once she holds the reins tightly, she can direct me wherever she chooses. Unlike the previous two which are clearly emotional (love) and physical (domination), control truly encompasses both.

What about your core pillars?