Introductions discussion

I’m a sixty-year-old gay man residing in the Chicago area. My interest in chastity began roughly two months ago after I read online stories about the joys of being locked up. After purchasing a CB6000 and putting it on for the first time, I had that “aha” moment and felt thrilled. For the past decade, edging has been my main way to release sexual tension, so a chastity cage feels like a natural next step. Last week, after two days in the device, I enjoyed an amazing session: I watched porn while locked, clamped my nipples, and gave my testicles some light punishment. Although I couldn’t stroke off, I reached an incredibly high state of arousal that felt wonderful. This intense feeling lasted around three hours; afterward, I was quite tired but thoroughly content. Now I see why constant arousal is the key benefit! Reading accounts of men who stay locked for weeks or months makes much more sense to me now.

Because I’m gay, my interest lies in submitting to a man. I wonder if this forum, which focuses heavily on FLR (Female Led Relationships), is quite right for my orientation. I’ve browsed around and haven’t found many stories specifically about chastity for gay men yet, but I am picking up more knowledge about the devices, submission dynamics, and those locked pleasures. On another site, I read a story from a guy who stays locked; he mentioned that his mouth, nipples, and butt became much more sensitive over time. He described finding joy in serving his Master while maintaining a low baseline of arousal daily—that’s exactly what I’m looking for. I haven’t decided if I’ll stick around here long-term, but thank you all for letting me introduce myself.