Hello all! I have a question that my vanilla wife and I are sharing, hoping to get the conversation going. I’m especially keen on hearing from keyholders… Looking for some words of support for her… What aspects did you discover as enjoyable, unexpected, or even less than ideal? In what ways has chastity changed your daily routine or intimate life? Thank you!
We took it easy at first. I had to break the masturbation habit. One week without release, two weeks without release, and so on until we hit a month mark. I found myself becoming quite attached to physical contact with my wife. I’d do anything for a chance to rub her feet or back, or just cuddle up. I even told her that her comfort was the top priority, regardless of what it cost me in terms of discomfort. She often mentioned she appreciated the additional tactile attention without feeling pressured by sex being the ultimate goal. We also held hands, shared kisses, and laughed together like we were on a date again. What didn't sit well with her... discussing our future direction. She assumed life would remain straightforward for us. I anticipated that chastity would be a regular topic of conversation between us. The simplest way to ruin this dynamic is by forgetting that your partner’s wants and needs are just as significant as your own.
> macmagna said: > We took it easy at first. I had to break the masturbation habit. One week without release, two weeks without release, and so on until we hit a month mark. I found myself becoming quite attached to physical contact with my wife. I’d do anything for a chance to rub her feet or back, or just cuddle up. I even told her that her comfort was the top priority, regardless of what it cost me in terms of discomfort. She often mentioned she appreciated the additional tactile attention without feeling pressured by sex being the ultimate goal. We also held hands, shared kisses, and laughed together like we were on a date again. > > What didn't sit well with her... discussing our future direction. She assumed life would remain straightforward for us. I anticipated that chastity would be a regular topic of conversation between us. The simplest way to ruin this dynamic is by forgetting that your partner’s wants and needs are just as significant as your own. > > Click to expand... I can totally relate to you being drawn to touch your wife constantly, emphasizing her comfort above all else. I sometimes have to rein myself in because my wife feels a bit overwhelmed when she senses my constant attention is almost suffocating.