Chastity device discussions and reviews discussion

member_98fe1e84a8 · 2026-09-12T21:29:19.000Z · 1 reply

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2026-09-12T21:29:19.000Z #1

Hi there,

I’ve scheduled my PA piercing for next week, and it will likely be between 8-10 gauge. I’m aiming for the 8 gauge option. The studio is well-regarded.

Since I am not circumcised, I’m leaning towards a titanium curved barbell, though I’ll follow their advice if they suggest otherwise.

Thank you once more to everyone who shared piercing tips. I decided on PA rather than frenulum.

I expect quite a long healing process (8+ weeks).

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Previously, I’ve used the CB, HT3, and Ghost custom chastity devices. The Ghost is particularly lovely.

Evotion wearables have been great to talk with, so I might pick up an Orion from them.

Other choices include a Saint from Custom Chastity (it’s pricey as it’s a new design for them, but I get a discount) and the new Cherry device. Supporting our community sites is appealing too. My main goal is finding a plastic device to keep things lightweight.

1 - Which devices do you suggest? ** ** 2 - (Guys with PA piercings) Do you believe it’s better to keep my natural piercing and secure it somehow? Or should I use the nylon insert provided at the end of the tube? ** 3 - LOCK - I’m leaning towards ABUS padlocks instead of Magic Locks. I’m not much of a lock picker, but the current Magic locks seem too easy; even a small computer screwdriver can slip in and unlock them easily. Padlocks require more practice and skill to pick, plus some are tougher than others.**

Thanks beforehand! This community is incredibly useful.

PRE WARNING - I’m focusing on locks because I want true inescapability. It’s not just mental; I’d rather have a key holder make the decisions for me. I’ve heard there are newer Magic Locks that are harder to pick, but all my previous HT3 and similar devices were too easy…Please don’t criticize chastity or the concept of being inescapable. This question is primarily about how best to secure the PA piercing / which devices work well.

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2026-09-14T13:51:06.520Z #2

> Jez_za said: > I'm considering a titanium curved barbell (I am not circumcised) but will follow their recommendation. > Click to expand... My piercing was done just under 10 weeks ago with a curved barbell. About a month back, I switched to a captive bead ring because I didn't like how the end of the barbell kept poking into my urethra and I worried it might pull all the way out. I'm quite active (aiming for an hour on the bike four times weekly). > Jez_za said: > I will be waiting a long time for it to heal (+ 8 weeks) > Click to expand... Eight weeks isn't really that long. I only recently started feeling fully healed and think I might be able to stretch my piercing in the coming weeks. Even at three months, I'm still well below the six-month mark they recommend for stretching. If you don't plan on going larger than 8 gauge, I'd strongly advise against putting any significant strain on the piercing until it is thoroughly healed. I plan to wait at least two months after my final stretch before committing.

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