Novices and newbies discussion

Good morning everyone, Just a question that comes up occasionally. What is the best approach to begin real chastity and orgasm denial? By “real,” I mean having no access or control over the key. I’ve seen profiles where it seems like once you secure the lock, there’s no turning back, and it stays on for quite some time. That feels a bit daunting for someone new;) I understand the idea that it’s not about me, and I should focus on improving my domme’s life. However, I’m not a robot who can switch emotions on and off at will. An experienced domme or keyholder could likely keep me anxious within two weeks and have me offering up my firstborn after five weeks just for some relief. But is that really the right way to start? I’m unsure about how to begin and develop, so any tips and wisdom would be appreciated before I dive in.