Chastity in vanilla life discussion

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It is week five of being locked in for this two-week stretch. My wife has her period, which usually signals that I stay secured until after she finishes. I remain under lock and key around the clock, with breaks only to clean up, plus a weekly "date night".
My spouse doesn't engage much in tease and denial. We tried weaving it into our routine, but between all the kid-related activities during the week, we are both wiped out by bedtime. If she decides to unlock me at that point, it might as well lead to sex, yet she isn't keen on doing so mid-week. So I stay locked.
I do crave some flirtation and denial elements though. I just stop bringing them up now. Two years of chastity life have taught me to accept what my plain-spoken keyholder offers and be content with it.
Today feels a bit "blah"...

member_6c32ab982b · Answer

So this is really about you?

member_f60e4bfbe5 · Answer

I experienced that phase too...
By not resisting it, I became more submissive. I simply accepted it as "her wish", even when she didn't say it out loud. Looking back, it turned out well; she valued me more for not nagging her during those times.

member_ec99d5d1c0 · Answer

I believe many of us who stay locked longer have gone through this.
When we first started with chastity play, it was all about tease and denial. But as it became a normal part of our daily lives, I had to accept that she holds the reins and I have little say in the matter. She does what she wants, and I focus on her needs.

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