Chastity and orgasm denial discussion

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2026-09-12T20:30:14.000Z #1

I enjoy PIV sex but I need more control over his orgasms, so could someone suggest a cream or spray for numbing? Thanks

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2026-09-13T00:26:10.640Z #2

Check the pain relief section at your local pharmacy. You'll find several options containing lanocaine and similar compounds. Most products designed for gum pain work effectively. Apply some, wait a few minutes to see how numb he becomes, and add more if needed. For you, ensure it dries completely first. Using a condom is also wise because without waiting, the numbing agent can transfer to you as well.

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2026-09-13T10:24:25.520Z #3

Lidocaine sprays are available for purchase, including on Amazon. These work excellently for penile numbness.

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2026-09-14T04:07:13.040Z #4

We use EMLA cream. It can be found at most pharmacies, though they often ask why you need it. We usually say we are preparing for blood tests or flu shots. It is highly effective.

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2026-09-14T11:42:06.800Z #5

We use Stud 100. It's really inexpensive if you buy in bulk from Amazon or Walmart, and it works very well

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2026-09-15T00:16:36.080Z #6

I recently bought EMLA cream for us. Since I am currently locked up, I couldn't test it in real action yet, so I tested it on other sensitive areas and can assure you that it truly works! I just cannot wait to see how it performs during actual use. Finally, I will be able to last longer than a few seconds, which is usually the case when I have been caged for too long, and hopefully satisfy her. It's amazing how orgasm control, combined with the absence of physical stimulation and chastity, destroys stamina! (for me) Beware: EMLA cream contains OIL which can damage latex, so make sure you wash it off before use.

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