Introductions discussion

Hey:) An Australian pair. We love fitness and kink! Eager to join in the conversation. We’ll share photos soon, just need to verify that this community is genuine first(:) I’m opening this account and my wife likely won’t notice much. We share other accounts, so this is where I vent and learn! Married for ten years now. In my previous relationship, infidelity happened; it didn’t sit well with me, but lately I’ve become really drawn to cuckolding and have recently entered that lifestyle! I have a question I’m desperate to answer. I own a chastity device, having tried five or six different ones. Currently wearing the HT3 while waiting for my custom ghost piece. I use magic locks, but they are incredibly easy to pick—I could put scissors in there and pop them open! (Five distinct magic locks, all identical). I’ve got both pricey and budget options. So tell me, where should I get one? Something that doesn’t yield so easily to picking because I always want the option out for a quick wank. Second question—ANTI PULLOUT solutions (CUSTOMS? - any suggestions without spikes or pinching?) I have a tiny golden Kinger device; it’s very small and super comfortable, but pulling my penis through the back is way too easy! Thanks in advance cheers