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- Jan 1970
Greetings everyone,
I am currently using a CB-6000s.
I originally purchased it roughly four years back. At that time, my bedroom life was at its lowest ebb, and I managed to turn the situation around by embracing chastity and avoiding orgasm. To give you an idea of how things were then: there was a period where I stayed in the device around-the-clock for 14 days—sleeping next to her without her ever finding out!
Later on, I had a vasectomy and stopped wearing it altogether. Even getting snipped felt like a submissive gesture to me, even though I never said it aloud; it was mostly an internal realization. I actually pictured the doctor letting my wife cut the cords!:) nuts right?
Recently, though, I’ve returned to wearing it. I genuinely love having it on; currently, I wear it all day unless we are in bed. It is entirely my own choice, so there is no one holding a key or anything like that. Honestly, I don’t feel the need for a key holder—maybe I wouldn’t even need the device itself—but what I really crave is to connect with her through my experience of being chaste.
Lately, when it’s manageable, I stop intercourse after she reaches an orgasm and hold back myself. The satisfaction I get from lying beside her afterwards feels significantly better than ten orgasms combined. Explaining this dynamic to her remains a challenge for me, though.
Wearing the device is enjoyable, and I know things are going well when it becomes second nature and I forget it’s there. But I recognize that at its core, it is just a fun kink. For me, true chastity lives in my mind and self-control, so I look forward to the day I can articulate this clearly to her.
Reaching that understanding would be wonderful; my ultimate dream scenario involves her taking a lover. It may never happen for us, but isn’t that what fantasies are meant to do?
On a final note: due to my specific anatomy, I’d love to find a slightly shorter cage, perhaps something like the 6000xs model. Is anything out there? This would make urination perfect. I suppose I am more of a grower than a shower, and that suits me perfectly!
Dave