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I finally received my properly sized Holy Trainer v3 today (my other HT V3 is listed for sale in the marketplace). My girlfriend asked about the package that arrived. I went ahead and let her know. I also mentioned that I had been drafting a revised chastity contract for us and asked if she wanted to review it together. So we did! She thinks it looks good, and we are on the same page. However, she said we should wait until the 1st of the month to sign it officially. That gives me time to test the new fit and see if it works well for long-term wear. I’ve been wearing it for several hours now, and it fits perfectly. I’m very happy with the HT V3.

I have made a contract before, and once had a cage that wasn’t comfortable in the long run, so it eventually slipped off and she forgot about it. This time, I made the initial trial period one month to see how things go. I am not sure exactly how it will turn out or what impact it will have on our relationship. So I don’t want to commit fully just yet lol… but I DO want to add this layer of kink and excitement. Hopefully that is what happens, and she gets into it too… I wouldn’t want to extend beyond a month if she just forgets about it or doesn’t take it seriously. I borrowed nearly everything in my contract from ideas on this forum (there were some awesome suggestions!). I also added some elements myself. In bed, my gf can say “switch,” and we swap sub/dom roles until I cum. I consider us both switchable, so it will give her an option if she decides she wants to be submissive during sex. The decision is hers though. I’m really excited for the 1st of the month. It will be interesting next month to see how things change… kind of like a science experiment lol. It will be intriguing to wear a cage for that long and experience the frustration and dizzying lust that comes with chastity. I hope the changes are positive ones, leading us to a satisfying experience. I plan to keep a journal here once we start.