Introductions discussion

Greetings everyone, I’m Stevie. I just joined the site recently, so I’m still getting my bearings… Quick background: My interest in T&D started back in April 2011 when my partner first denied me everything after making sure she was completely satisfied herself. I’ll never forget her words: “Hmm that was nice I’m going to sleep now.” I felt incredibly aroused, yet this woman whom I love and care for deeply was denying me any reward…I couldn’t fathom why. The impact on me was deep. Sure, I could have handled it myself, but something about that didn’t feel quite right, so the journey began… Since then, we’ve delved into tease and denial quite a bit. About three years ago, we bought a CB device to see if we could weave it into our intimate moments. Unfortunately, my SO wasn’t particularly fond of the idea. I attempted self-locking before getting close to her, but she always asked me to take it off, which was sad. She’s perfectly content enjoying herself and then sending me away for sleep with nothing more than a denial…nothing substantial enough to really stop me from doing what I want… However, in 2016 we attended a show and stayed at a hotel in London where I had arguably the best chastity experience of my life. It was one where she seriously denied me for hours after locking me inside my CB6000. I hoped then that we had turned a corner and that chastity would become common in our relationship—I promise to write about it here soon. Right now, any play involving the device happens when we are away together just the two of us, though I do self-lock occasionally to boost the mood. It does have to come off before any “shenanigans” begin. I’m currently wearing a HolyTrainer (locked since Saturday at 9:30am with no breaks) and she has the key on her car keys - but I haven’t told her yet. Hopefully, this hasn’t been too long-winded. I look forward to being part of things here. Stevie